Manipulation and Youth Ministry
Darren at Digital Orthodoxy has posted a series of posts on manipulation inside of Youth Ministry, the key one being the third post though all are worth a read. I disagree with him on multiple levels though think he's onto something, what exactly that is you'll have to guess for now because I'm half-way through a response and it's just gone midnight. So here's some homework. Read his posts, then come back here in day or two and read my response.